get a glass and smash it on the floor
is it broken?
Now say sorry to it
is it fixed now?
-of course not!
so sorry wasn't good enough?
-well, no but..
what about glue? can you fix it by gluing it back together?
-i can try.
can you still see the cracks?
will it hold any water? can it still fulfil it's purpose?
-because it's broken
because you have broken it.
and it will be broken forever. you couldn't fix it by saying sorry
will it still be broken if you walk away?
so you leaving it won't fix it?
can anything make it the way it was before?
do you understand now?